Nine Tips for Dating Success
How many of you have felt a bit unsure of the “rules” when meeting a woman for the first time?
Perhaps you are new at dating, and have a few questions about modern history protocol. Here are a few tips to interact with a woman you don’t know that will come across in a social setting as gentlemanly and impressive.
- Shake hands with a woman you are meeting for the first time, a hug is unexpected, a kiss is too intimate and suggestive.
- Be at the restaurant, bar or coffee shop first. Get a table and be waiting for her.
- Take charge in the ordering process with the wait staff. Never show frustration if the service is not perfect.
- Stand when she approaches you. If she gets up to leave the table for some reason (other than permanently!) rise again briefly.
- If you have an opportunity, hold a door to a building for her. Car doors usually don’t come into the picture on a first date, but if so you only need to open as she enters the car. She can get out on her own.
- Use table manners your mother would be proud of. And know that she is watching you. If in doubt follow her lead.
- Focus on her. Never let yours eyes wander around the bar. This is the easiest clue for her that you are “just not in to her”.
- Pay. I could write a book on this. Paying equates to power, and the person who has it is the one who pays. If you are trying to encourage a feminine response to your masculinity, take possession of the bill immediately and graciously decline offers to contribute.
- Be sure to give her an appropriate physical complement, let her know she is desirable in your eyes.
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